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Uighur man, a Hajji Pilgrim, rests with his two wives and
their six children in front of their house at the Buzak
Commune. Near Khotan, Xinjiang Province, People's Republic of
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From the
above discussion, it can be safely concluded that polygamy in
Islam was above all, a response to a contingency in the early days
of Islam.
While there are those in the
more traditional schools of Islamic thought, who would continue to
tout the virtues of polygamy, others espousing a converse
viewpoint, have subjected the nature of the permission for
polygamy in the Qur’an, to impartial and diligent scrutiny.
The verses of the Qur’an allowing polygamy read as follows:
“If you fear that you cannot treat orphans with fairness, then you
may marry other women who seem good to you, two, three or four of
them. But if you fear that you cannot maintain equality among
them, marry one only, or any slave-girl you may own. This will
make it easier for you to avoid injustice.”(4:3)
In another verse, the
Qur’an forewarns Muslim men that they would in all probability,
not be able to maintain justice, and hence fall short of meeting
the Qur’an’s strict condition for contracting a second marriage.
Abdullah Yusuf Ali, reading both relevant verses of the Qur’an in
conjunction, concludes in his learned commentary, that while the Qur’an may reluctantly permit a man to take more than one wife in
rare cases, it undoubtedly endorses a monogamous union under
normal circumstances.(The Holy Qur’an, Translation and Commentary,
Abdullah Yusuf Ali.)
Scholars, both traditional and modernist, have offered sundry
explanations as to why men were granted even a reluctant
permission to take more than one wife. Chauvinistic arguments
among these, tend to associate masculinity with a stronger sexual
urge,
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Chauvinistic
arguments among these, tend to associate masculinity with
a stronger sexual urge, hence the justification for
polygamy. |
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hence the justification
for polygamy. Others suggest that polygamy is the lesser of two
evils in society, and assert that it would be preferable to have a
lawfully wedded second wife, rather than a liaison on the sly. Yet
other explanations offer a practical or political vindication of
polygamy, but few seem to take the feminine viewpoint into
consideration.
What is often ignored, for example, is that given the social
conditions in Pre-Islamic Arabia, polygamy was allowed primarily
to provide protection to women. Giving license to men to suit
their fancy was not the main intent of the Qur’an, if at all.
Verse 4:3 therefore addresses the economic and social need of most
seventh century Arabian women, who were neither financially nor
professionally independent. Being cared for by a husband was the
only option for many of these women, mainly in times of war and
the gender imbalance resulting from it.
Furthermore, verse 4:3 of the Qur’an must be read in conjunction
with the preceding verse, which exhorts Muslims to give orphans
their due share. Men responsible for the care of orphans would
have to ensure their financial, as well as their social
well-being. If these guardians or care givers felt they were
faltering in their duty to these orphans, the Qur’an recommended
that they take the mothers of these orphans into wedlock. Thus, in
the first instance the protection
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If these
guardians or care givers felt they were faltering in their
duty to these orphans, the Qur’an recommended that they
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of women was the
paramount concern of the Qur’an, and in the second instance, the
interest of orphans was to be given priority. It was never the
intention of the Qur’an to simply cater for a man’s more
pronounced sexual drive, while ignoring the sentiments of women.
Such chauvinistic arguments make a mockery both of Islam and the
restricted permission for polygamy it allowed under the special
circumstances described.
The fact that polygamy was allowed largely for the protection of
women and orphans is amply demonstrated by the example of the
prophet Muhammand pbuh. Most of his wives were older, destitute
women who had been left at the mercy of inhospitable relations, or
pagan Meccans who missed no opportunity to harass them for having
embraced Islam. The prophet therefore took them under his
protection, when none other would undertake this responsibility.
Also, most of these marriages were contracted after the prophet
had turned fifty. His monogamous marriage with Khadijah (Ra)
lasted for twenty five years till she passed away. Never during
her lifetime, did the prophet consider a second, third or fourth
marriage, when he could have easily contracted one as a much
younger man.
A fact often ignored about the
Qur’anic permission for a restricted polygamy is, that Islam by no
means introduced the institution. Polygamy, an age-old
institution, had been in vogue since biblical times, most
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This was
deemed an additional responsibility on the man rather than
a license catering to his propensity towards a promiscuous
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biblical prophets having
contracted polygamous marriages. In Pre- Islamic Arabia, polygamy
and polyandry were both common. They were practiced without any
obligation or restriction on the man or the woman. Islam, far from
introducing the institution, in fact regulated its practice by
restricting the number of multiple marriages a man could contract
in order to protect women and orphans, This was deemed an
additional responsibility on the man rather than a license
catering to his propensity towards a promiscuous lifestyle.
Why then did Islam not continue to allow a restricted
polyandry? Keeping in view the conditions in seventh century
Arabia, there would have been no means by which to determine the
paternity of a child. Also, since Islam holds the man responsible
for the support and maintenance of his wife, a polyandrous woman
would have benefited from the income of many husbands, resulting
in an imbalance of resources in society.
From the above discussion, it can be safely concluded that
polygamy in Islam was above all, a response to a contingency in
the early days of Islam. The permission is to be understood more
as a contextual, rather than a normative one. However, if similar
special circumstances were to occur again, the restricted
permission would perhaps apply again. Under normal circumstances,
Islam favors monogamy, as it strives to eliminate all avenues of
friction, being ever mindful of the rights and sentiments of
Muslim women.
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